Monday, March 20, 2017
#Parenting and dressing as a young woman
You all know I have daughters. Four of them in fact. Dressing is an issue for them and for their mother. This one time Mini was going to school in a very short dress that fit very tight and was very short. The weather was negative 25 degrees so I knew her skinny legs would freeze. And then the short dress was a non non. I told her to get back into the house and change.
Kid proceeds to show me she had long leggings and would not be cold. Then in the driveway, she yanks back her dress and she was wearing shorts under the skirt. This in case she bent over at school.
But the girls also taught me something. A woman above age of 30 should really not wear short clothes. And then we have the breast thing..no flashing your boobs at people because it is too distracting.
Do you know how far you have to dig to find gold, diamond and pearls? They are hidden.
Below is a message a good friend of mine just sent me about how women dress and why we need to dress better. AMEN.
I am of the opinion that some things need to be hidden until he explores and finds what is hiding underneath a long dress or skirt. Perhaps too traditional. Does not mean to undress mini skirts in public. Some Ugandan ladies take pictures they post on Facebook and tag my boyfriends (annoying) of their legs, boobs and curves. No wonder your BF prefers me. Hahahaaa
Most sexy looking girls do not have someone to tell them the truth.
The following conversation took place between a grandmother and her grand-daughter .
Grandma: Mutoni, where are you going?
Mutoni: Grandma, I am going to Church.
Grandma: Really? Please come and sit down and let's talk for a minute before you go. I think we still have ample time before the Church Service begins? Don't we?
Mutoni: Yes, about an hour.
Grandma: The way you are dressed, in fact, you look very sexy.
Mutoni: (Smiling) Thank you very much ma.
Grandma: Hmmmm, Mutoni, I can see you love that compliment. Please tell me, do you need someone to have sex with you?
Mutoni: Ooh, noo! Grandma. Why this question?
Grandma: If you do not need someone to have sex with you, then, why do you dress 'sexy'?
Mutoni: There's nothing to worry about, Grannie. I just want to....
Grandma: (cuts in)... dressed to kill, as usual! Mutoni, a Godly girl should never feel proud or swollen-headed when someone tells her that she looks 'sexy'. In fact, it's a very bad and insulting compliment.
The intention of dressing sexy is to arouse men, That's all. That's the reason why prostitutes dress this way. They dress this way because they want someone to have sex with them and pay them. They do everything possible to 'look sexy' and attractive - not to just one person, but to the entire men in town!
They expose their breasts, they wear things that will reveal all their endowed curves -- and even private parts of their body -- JUST to look sexy and attractive to men, so that they will not rest until they have a carnal knowledge of them, for money. Please, Mutoni, are you also trying to look that way so that you will be attractive to men for sex?
Mutoni looked down, and was speechless.
Grandma: (continues) This is the reason why you are not getting a husband. Do you still wonder why suitable suitors rush to take you to bed.... then, after saying 'you are hot,' they dump you? They feel that you cannot stay with 'one man' alone. Do you now realise that I, your grandma, am not the one using witchcraft against you?
You are young, fit and attractive, although you are a Christian yet you always look so worldly. When you dress like this to Church, the probability of bringing even the pastor down is very high. But remember that 'woe betide the one by whom a righteous man is made to fall...' I know you can remember this scripture very well. Well, my beloved grand-daughter, I am done. You can now go.
Mutoni: Thank you very much, Grandma. I have never looked at it like this before. From today onwards, I promise never to dress again to look sexy. I will rather dress to look beautiful and glorify GOD with my dressing. Thank you very much ma.
Grandma: You are welcome, my dear.
(Seeing that Mutoni started going towards her room, she said). But, are you not going to church anymore?
Mutoni: I will go Grannie. I just want to change my dress, first.
Grandma: May God bless you for doing that.
Please pass on to the females in our lives including wives, daughters, sisters, nieces, cousins, next door neighbours, friends, etc.
Most sexy looking girls do not have someone to tell them the truth. Encourage them to read and react to it -- just as Mutoni did -- because We Are Addressed The Way We Dress.
Let us dress right to reflect the Godliness in our lives